Kink: Another State of Mind

Women need and like sex as well as men do. They have thier own sexual fantasies, which are a little less explicit in comparison to male ones. In fact, women appear to be more involved with their own emotional responses than with the characteristics of figures that form part of their imaginations. The heroines of their fantasies are very often their imagined selves, which are different from woman to woman and vary in degree of strangeness and oddity. You’d be amazed at actually how many women like kinky stuff.

If you ask a woman, she is likely to say that she does like some form of kink or the other. Kink is an ability to turn something ordinary into something extraordinary. If you are not sure whether you have your own kink, think of the most crazy wish you had while having sex. Have it? This is your own kink!

It is also true that some women may be too shy to approach this subject with their lovers, simply because ‘good’ girls aren’t supposed to like chains and whips. Here are some kinky ideas you might want to try out sometime. He, of course, would be astoundingly surprised and probably more welcome to your kinks...

Anal Sex

Anal sex is usullay a matter of personal taste. Very often women are shy to say that they would like to try it, others get orgasms only while having anal sex. There is absolutely nothing wrong with anal sex, if it gives you more pleasure than pain. And no, you’re not the solitary straight woman who’d like to have something stuffed up your behind. There’s no harm in trying, but don’t force yourself to like it either. This requires plenty, and we mean PLENTY, of lube... Who knows, you might just find something that drives you over the top!

Aggressive love
There is nothing really disturbing about that! Some women have an aching fantasy of bossing their men around just as a typically kinky thing to do; this might be way out of character for them in reality. The man in turn must be completely submissive and give in to each of her tantrums. This can actually lead to be more entertaining for the man, really. On the other hand, it might get a little painful sometimes, so before your hardcore flogging ritual begins, make sure you’ve established a verbal code, so you know when to stop yourself when he says it.

Role plays
Role plays can add more variety and extravagance to your sex life. Pretending you are somebody else allows you to venture onto places you wouldn’t usually go. It means you are voluntarily forcing yourself to go outside your comfort zone. Some popular role plays are Boss-Secretary (lust and power), Headmistress-Pupil (spank away!), Photographer-Model (look, but don’t touch), Striper-Client (sex without the emotion), and plenty more... Be sure to discuss the roles you have chosen before with your partner, it may so happen that he doesn't like the role you have chosen - then you may think of something together! Never overindulge, otherwise your best desires mau turn into the real nightmare!

Gizmos and gadgets
Get more satisfaction and excitement from your sex life while using all kinds of sex toys. They are a great way to receive stimulation that may otherwise be difficult and tiring to sustain. If you’re not getting enough of clitoral stimulation, or are not usually satisfied unless you’ve had multiple orgasms, sex toys are a great addition to your normal sex habits. There’s lots of kinky variation in these gizmos available in the market... You can buy them in just about any shape you could think up! There are plenty of dildos, dongs, vibrators, penis extensions, anal sex toys and more to choose from. The most popular ones, of course, are those shaped like male sex organs... Oh, and we like bunnies too, don’t we, girls?

Three is company too
Threesomes are also quite a kink, aren't they? It is to be noted, however, that threesomes are not for regular sex; they require both creativity and dollops of sensitivity. You need to get into the situation with some idea of what you're going to be doing. For the more adventurous and thrill-seeking woman, adding someone new into the picture might be quite a kinky idea. You must remember that threesomes could be dangerous for any relationship, and they must be handled with immense care and a lot of planning.

Dirty dancing
It’s no secret that most guys would love to see their women dance for them an erotic and sexy dance. For that very purpose some couples even have poles installes in thier bedrooms. Lap dances and pole dances are very popular foreplay practices that turn men on. But have you ever given thought to how well he would fare with that pole? He might actually be better than you expect! And if he’s not, give him a couple of lessons or join him in his dance - perhaps you will manage to do it better together!

Masturbation show
Who says masturbation is meant to be done only in private? Many women like to watch their men masturbate. You ask why? This probably arises from the natural curiosity and the genuine desire to learn how to handle his penis the way he likes it. If this has ever featured in your fantasy list, it is a nice way to make him feel that you care enough to want to know how to pleasure him correctly.